[影集]Six Degrees 1x06 (無雷)

Steven says:
a famous philosopher once said,
"we don't know what we want,but we are responsible for who we are."
He was french and had a lot of time on his hands,but he's not wrong.
no one wants to take responsibility for anything really--
their actions,their words,their secrets or their desires.
And the hardest thing-- to be responsible for someone else.

你永遠不知道你該有多少的責任
當責任降臨，只有去承受沒有其他的解決辦法

可不可能跟可不可以的差別只在於責任
相對於感情也是一樣的道理
you can't love someone
you shouldn't love someone
the only difference is "responsibility"

以前高中社團有個不成文規定：「不可以談戀愛，不然退社」
因為是不成文，所以我加入了不遵守的那群人
換來的是第一場校外音樂會長號聲部二部差點無法演出
後來不管我再怎麼努力的想要維持天秤的平衡，都無法長期保持安穩
如果你們是豎笛跟打擊的社對
也許你不會明顯影響到整個社團的平衡
但當你們是同一個聲部，只要你們一吵架
影響到的會是整個聲部的和諧，甚至整個聲部消失
整個樂團的演出就不用說了

同理可證，辦公室、實驗室...任何跟工作有關的地方
sometimes, you want to love someone in your team.
of course you can, but you shouldn't !!
unless you can be sure you know how to keep it in blance.