a famous philosopher once said,
"we don't know what we want,but we are responsible for who we are."
He was french and had a lot of time on his hands,but he's not wrong.
no one wants to take responsibility for anything really--
their actions,their words,their secrets or their desires.
And the hardest thing-- to be responsible for someone else.
you can't love someone
you shouldn't love someone
the only difference is "responsibility"
sometimes, you want to love someone in your team.
of course you can, but you shouldn't !!
unless you can be sure you know how to keep it in blance.